“Your” purpose in life..
Many people tell me..”I have been there, done that.. and yet, I feel empty. I don’t know why, but I feel sad.” They are looking for their purpose in life, which has still eluded them.
The mantra that I have been given about the purpose in life, is as follows…
Your purpose in life, is to create energies of enjoyment, for the self, by the self, from the self.
And here’s the good news… That’s the purpose for all of us!. It’s not be a CEO, not to have a business empire, not to raise dutiful loving children.. no… It’s simply to create enjoyment for self!

How can I create energies of enjoyment for self … my children have exams next week/ I have a hitler boss who wrings out all my energies of enjoyment!/ I shall create enjoyment when I retire/ , when my daughter gets married/ when I get divorced…, I get to hear these lines too!

Let’s revisit the purpose again… Energies of enjoyment,..
..For the self.
Only for yourself. Because if you cannot give love to yourself, you cannot give it to anyone else.. As simple as that. Wear your own oxygen mask before putting on others… so, create fun for yourself every single day.. Out of the 12 awake hours, if you are not enjoying yourself for at least 3, you need to seriously re-think your day . Enjoyment is many things.. even if you are ironing clothes, you could be enjoying it.. and if you are not, then don’t do it. Yes, don’t do it. It’s better that the task is not done, rather than done with all the “loving” energy of a sulking, sacrificing, brooding mother! Go enjoy yourself first.. and then, you will come back humming and singing to the ironing board.

…By the self..
create fun for your body, do things to express your love for yourself, BY your self.. It is not someone else’s job to keep you happy.. it is your job to keep you happy. Stop expecting from others. Create your own enjoyment.

…From the self
The enjoyment should come from within.. immerse yourself in the moment… Forget everything else, except how much you enjoy doing what you are.
It takes so little to be in our life purpose.😝🤗 A dhinchak song on the radio, a good book, a dozen rasmalai, a good haircut, a cuppa/bottle of our favorite beverage😝, a nice massage, a funny video…I have not even started to count mushy things like a sleeping child, a smile from a stranger.. just because those are outside of self, not in our control. But the above list is not..
So, go create your ‘purposeful” life, starting today.🤗🤗
Make that shift … Within!!